Relax

Relax: a happy person who always said to myself: I think happiness, I would have done in all aspects of getting better and better, I will become more and more happy. You repeatedly say a few words on their own, such as "I am relaxed," "I am very calm," and so on, over time these words will enter your subconscious. Yi-Fun: Now, we try to imagine a pleasant mental image. First of all, relax your jaw, lift your face, open your lips, tilt your mouth up, said to myself, "Yi more interesting." The image of happiness, like a television broadcast, like on their own, and this is a pleasant mental image method. Loud speech: speech by suppressing the voices of people who obviously small, self-confidence was inadequate, was not happy. So you want to maximize your volume, but do not have to shout loudly to others. As long as you consciously make the voice on the line, slightly larger than usual. Chest rise: careful observation you will find that those who suffer by the exclusion of others who are walking tractor pull very lazy, is very dirty, full of self-confidence. Another extraordinary people the confidence to show, they walked faster than the average person, such as in the sprint. The rise of chest go a little faster, you will grow happy. Make use of its advantages: If someone tells you: "You are on the phone talking." Do you think that nothing. However, in order to know that there are many people feel that is very difficult to do so, so this is something to be proud of your advantages. The source of happiness is to discover and take advantage of the merits of the real you, which makes you a better self-awareness, the more you are happy. Share: A person asked God: "Why are people happy in heaven, and hell do people do?" So God went to hell with him, he saw many people sitting in a big pot before the pot delicious food, everyone can be hungry and disappointed because they are the hands of the spoon is too long, can not bring food to their mouths. Then, they went to paradise, where the spoon has a very long, but people with a spoon of food to the mouth of others. And can share their happiness with others happy. Thanksgiving: Institute grateful if you would reduce a lot of anger, you are only grateful, really happy together; if a person is only bitterness, you are better with the natural feeling. Saying goes: think of the deposit to thank. The heart of Thanksgiving and happy for you to create a miracle. Of course, these above-said about the do is not possible, you can take your time, it is should be able to do so. Because it can determine your happiness is your own mentality, the mentality of a good adjustment, you chose to be happy, and naturally have a happy! I believe you would also hope that you will eventually be able to find their own happiness.

Juvenile mountain

Every time some so-called National Tourism backward. Those encountered in the remote mountain city of the countryside have never seen a child, there will always suspected that I am more happy in the end, or they are more well-being? Not long ago, a small town in Myanmar met a Kyaikhtiyo help carry luggage to the famous tourist attractions of juvenile golden stone. To look at his little slim, but one of our personal luggage 4 on top of the head, worn in the rain wearing slippers to lead us up the mountain. 4 pack of our own is certainly not light. Carrying a juvenile is not easy. However, he does not sing sing, make steady progress, and always lead the way to go in ahead of us. I am a senior in a foreign country, whether the hotel or the street hawkers to never tip the miser, but the young professional, let me break the ring, has decided not to top his many tips. Looking at the boy, I think that he would not be so trapped in the mountains all his life, every day is to help people carry luggage through to earn a few dollars more that the cost of living? If the city took him to, he would not have more choice? he will also want to when the coolies? easier and happier he will not? the future he would not compare the well-being of that? Later, a friend and chatted, he felt that I did not actually think so. Perhaps juvenile mountain never have the opportunity to leave the home to major cities in the world to see a variety of side, but that does not necessarily represent the unhappy. A no immersion in the colorful world of the modern people have, there will not be too many opportunities for a variety of his desire, it is not a happy thing. Compared to life around them was too much temptation substances we often would like to receive more after, Zhidong desire never to fill a bottomless boundless dissatisfaction, happiness always seems elusive, we strive to work hard to make money, but time always not enough, has never earned enough money. Who is happier in the end, it might. Coming back to the mountains of juvenile, as a mercy, because he looked like the wizard, we need to 8 o'clock the next morning he returned to the inn we stop to help carry our luggage down the mountain. Early the next day before the time that he had arrived in the rain. Or yesterday's dirty clothes, or the Black slippers yesterday and are very stubborn and refuses to enter the inn rain. They do not know it was the work of "etiquette" or self-esteem issues. But admire his backbone. The way down the mountain, two dogs at his side to turn it to see if he and the exchanges between the dog, really think that he and the dog are happy. We can see each person in their own world can find their own comfortable space. Or the harsh living environment and living conditions of the good or bad, are merely relative. Juvenile mountain is bound to have the sadness I can not see at all times, but the problem is that when I have pity for him at the moment, I am afraid of the subconscious is already a bit looked down on their way of life as primitive, there is no place with them I have the same status. Who is more happy in the end it?

Thanksgiving to remember

Forget where read this sentence, but, forced entry at heart. When pain, please do not speak out. However, the pain, it will leave a scar on it? However, the pain, you will cry out loud? Slightly more physical at that time not only remember their own good, always go to the hospital reported, and penicillin at that time are the things I fear most fear. Pull out the kind of needle, the pain will be linked to the feeling of aching legs, I have to remember. I think, At that time, maybe the bar is a pain. It was later pulled out of the memory needles. But pain, like the eye of a needle may be left behind, a small, slowly enough. Do not cry with a declaration. Grown up, indulge their love of temperament, I remember at first go home after 0:00, the mother was worried that angry at the whole face, not saying what I just let me sleep as soon as possible. It was a pair of eyes to my pain, deep in the Indian heart, the eyes of love, love the pain. However, pain may be nothing left traces, just a look, but has been remembered. Do not Cry, do not laugh, remember. The job, did not belong to Fall in love with their love, but quietly, occasionally, alas, more often, tell myself to smile, happy, just, wise know how to appropriate their own confused. Can no longer deceive himself when sober, however, they use alcohol hand her a drunk, woke up later to continue the happy stupid. The original technology and their poor could not fill the hearts of their own good. Heart, after mending, but also hurt you? However, pain may be left behind can not see the scars are engraved in his heart, engraved in the memory once. Do not Cry, only tears, and then forget ... ... When pain, please do not speak out. May be able to hurt, to pain, is a happy bar. I remember someone had told me, it is necessary to remember that Thanksgiving, after all, we do not have numbness, pain, after all have our reasons. Next time, when pain, please do not speak out.

Such women to be

1, reserved Most women there is a manifestation of temperament is a reserved. How to make false modesty, it is easy, one hand, the rise of one of hesitation, speak before thinking, that when we are walking very carefully, I heard a joke after making one of the slow smile, to name just a manifestation of a woman's modesty. Modesty of women embodies the self-cultivation. Know of a reserved woman, most often a woman can inspire the heroic care Men circumstances, be able to reflect the man's demeanor, so that Man can have a strong desire to love this woman.
2, taste This is more difficult to clear, fun, play gooseberry should be informed, it is necessary to understand the man's sense of humor and know how to pleasure a man. Taste will take some talent, but also essential to practice the day after tomorrow. In life and need some knowledge, some humor, a little elementary, but also take some pleasure from the heart. In life and can be of high moral character, can also be some low, but can not act. Have fun a woman, often a happy woman, at least be able to create a happy woman, this woman, and to the music of a Man, How can we not recall with nostalgia?
3, moderate Change too much in this society, we do not let their heart to shortage of shortage of go, know how to maintain the inner peace of a woman, just as busy in a quiet tea house, people can not help but want to break full of rest. Peaceful woman, not so many requirements, not always on other people's envy of wealth and fortunate. Although the same emotion changing society, the impermanence of life, they know how to calm the woman holding a little indifferent to the heart. Therefore, peaceful woman, men can feel total peace, relaxation, so that when the Man in the sad, tired or too excited when the time and her want. Most know how to calm and gentle woman.
4, kind Not see the kind of street beggars money give him two, nor is it time and again to endure the betrayal of a Man and always forgive him, not the kind to pay, not to give way is not soft, but when you can hurt others, the and not hurt others as a quality. Is the kind you never take the initiative to hurt others will not be entangled know how to stop before going too far. Kind of woman, and understand for themselves a way to stay, things to do can not be put. Kind of woman, it will not let fear Men, men will be unable to get over her. At such a woman before the man will not be wary of talent in order to feel safe.
5. In good faith Of the people you assist, thanks in good faith, but also to look at his eyes, so you can feel his sincerity; Date of do not want to accept, decline Sincerely, brains do not go at as an excuse; Friends of the grade of, sincere applause; Get along with any time a stranger should be reported to the sincere smile.

Happy truth

Silent happy one for the speech, it is the most happy time. The more you say, the more you cast doubt on the well-being. Do not want to go like the pursuit of happiness thing. A lot of time and therefore the spread of unfortunate. Love like a popular time, you want to nervously: "It seems I should not have to love the." Enlightenment of the people, not like he has, then enlightenment. The people so happy, nor would we say: "I am happy how how!" You always think: "Will it have more happy?" You always think: "I should have more than others happy!" The "more" character is the reason you are unfortunate enough. What do you think of a good ramen shop to eat, but the gourmet side, said: "It is a general you." So eat when I feel there is no flavor. Now you do not think you can feel happy, and this is the reason you are unfortunate enough. You do not think you can do now, and this is the reason you can not do. The whole day thinking about the pursuit of happiness to the people, never be happy. Because for him, happy existence in the future. If you do not feel happy now, What can be happy tomorrow? Who have had happy experiences, but unconsciously, we have forgotten in the hearts of happy, but in order to have a happy bustle of the four conditions. And, at the same time, we forget the advantage of well-being.

life

The beginning of a period of friendship, always Health predestined fate, otherwise I fail to understand why the vast crowd so I met you, the fall of each other's feelings, the heart was so warm and touching, and sorry, and I want to, so that one types of encounters should be carefully cherished. Therefore, the love of your love, enjoy the likes of you. A result of this love and enjoy, have been each other's shows, only a share of the sincere. Flows because of the emotion in language, because language in the struggle to imagine, start approached, and began to wish that ... ... this kind of support and encouragement so that touched me so, and, tears. Efforts to seek the well-being of a grip stand. Because I did not want, to live up to it was an absolute sincerity of the sincere hope engraved, close to the soul, do not need flowery words, do not need sweet words, silent, silent communication, that a way for the emotional heart fibrillation, from language to music, to mood, made me feel all warm from the bottom of their hearts ... ... Value, and this happy. Nothing to pay, within the heart has a deep apology total, nameless and usually think of the fact, we can just hold hands around her Ordinary was warm smile And know that the people must want the Value Value, the gratitude of the people must also be grateful to know the value of the distance, they also encounter this kind of peace of mind. Night, quietly, because of their selfless giving, there is no need to thank, but would also like to thank, because the depths of the heart, and always treasure, and what kind of fate and destiny and the students love it a faint!

Wrote want to love, is love, love the people lose

Japan and South Korea not to trust the so-called soap operas because they can not let each other and leave happy. Whether or not thought about you the other side is happy. Love rather than evading, the efforts are. Not evade the responsibility for each other happy, but efforts to facilitate implementation of the obligations happy. Say yes when you leave each other in order to not hurt when you give the other party has caused the greatest harm. Efforts should be made with love is. Since not to be afraid to leave and understand each other. Since understanding is love, not because of fear. Love is a duty, can not easily leave. Allow you to leave and people fear, not a lover, even to pay more, people want to leave, after all, are to leave. Do not know will not to feel that there is love.Not to the surrounding environment of the heavy look. You are in love, and what people around the relationship. However, please treat each other's family, friends. A lot of things, but just give an excuse for their own.

Have

This world, good things really come to a few, however, we always want to be too much, so many things as possible for their own. Life is short, the ownership and the loss of life between the flow inadvertently done. If you lose the sun, the shining star you have lost money, and Friendship will be, when you life time to leave, but you have to kiss the earth. Have the time, treasure; lost on the right are acceptable when the test of true life, the right to strive in life when the promises are rough commitments. Have the honesty, the hypocrisy on the up; has a full, on the discarded Boring; have practical, on the impetuous abandon. Are discarded, whether intentional or accidental loss, as long as the owner of the real once, at some time, do not give up generous it is also a realm? Inadvertently lost, you can also go for. Lost love, where you can find in the spring, lost the will, you want to re-honed in the winter. But lost the lazy, you can not remove it picked up. Too many desires, anti become redundant, have also more than indifferent to what the mind, but also can enrich their own, be satisfied? Indifferent to select, then go for some mountain ready.

Love what is it?

Love what is it? Let love fly soul, the soul can meet the love, let love "can not" into "possible." Love what is it? A person can love a trance, a person can love giggle, a love people can feel good enough to eat. Love what is it? At the failure of love magic when you can stand up quickly, at the success of love at first time when you fly with pleasure in the success. Love what is it? Concern and worry for you, and you laugh and laugh, and sad for your own sad, pleasure and happiness for you. Love you, It's crazy in this world, the world's sincere Yes, this crazy world you! I would like to love and health, and dying for love, for love and forgotten by the world. Sincerity + infatuation + have + Experience + patience = happiness and joy! You love it! Forever! Satisfied! Pleasure! Happy! Blessings of love Chun-chun, the most beautiful love, love hard to understand! Wish you all a "love forever"

Love you

Love you, Love your soul, you love the temperament, you love the idea. Love you, Love your smile, you love the harmony, you love the open-minded.
Love you, Love your attitude, you love the enthusiasm, the sincerity of your love.
Love you, You love the calm, steady love of you, the reason you love.
Love you, Mind your love, love your intelligence, you love peace.
Love you, Temper you love, you love the cold, missing you love.
Love you, There is no reason, no reason, did not ask!
Love is you!
Love a person, for me, without any conditions.
Love a person, for me, appearance is not important.
Love a person, for me, age is not a problem.
Love a person, more than me, step aside money.

The feeling of love

The feeling of love, always start at one time sweet, I felt a much more others to follow suit, many a person to help you share, you are finally no longer alone, because at least one person thinking of you, whether to do anything, as long as they can together, that is good. But slowly, with the deepening of understanding, you will find each other's shortcomings, so the issue of the emergence of one after another, so, you start trouble, tired, or even want to avoid. It is said that love is like picking a stone, with a total want to find a suitable own. However, how can you know when to be able to pick up? You fit him, and you fit him? In fact, I feel that love should be like grinding, perhaps you just pick up the start time is not so satisfied, and slowly, everything will change. Since people are flexible and are a lot of things can be changed, as long as you want, have the courage, rather than pick up the unknown stone everywhere, do not already have such as their polished stones. A lot of people think that because the feelings are short, the talent will become lazy. More and more and more people now just want to talk about a lifetime of love, but has been reluctant to enter into marriage. Since marriage easy to become lazy. If people are too lazy for each speech, too lazy to listen to, too lazy to create pleasant, gentle and considerate too lazy, then the husband and wife or between lovers, how can we not drifting further and further away? Please keep in mind: there is the vitality of love, are attentive to the needs of moderate irrigation. Love, but things are not lazy.

Love go to the bank

There we go.po recommendations. A self-service banking, brightly lit, there is a corner sofa table, have an ashtray. Them into the cool, no mosquitoes, very comfortable sofa to sit. Thus,po and love to build it in the point set. Love the weekly meetings, are all here.po no bone is built like a body depends on building long-hand at waist po.po so many unexpected places, what want to say to him, the company's interesting story, save for a week, scrambling to come up, just want to watch him laugh. Laughter in the building finished, and are silent, the smoke fingertips are his best friend.po also quiet down and watch the side of him, and never tired of, micro-curly hair,eyelashes, straight nose, lips po unconsciously put their lips to give a go. She knew that the bank is self-camera, but, love the people, why should we be afraid of these? At that time, through a self-help po each bank, both can not help but smile, as if to see his love of the people sitting inside.

Still warm

Marry, I am 22 years old, his 26-year-old. Index plate has been for 11 years. Marriage, almost all were against it. At others it seems, he is no strong points: an ordinary railway workers, there is no academic, economic constraints, the general appearance, and now can not see tangible benefits, the development of the future can not see. The real start from scratch, there is no house, no electrical, not all secular values. Married 11 years, moved house 6 times, 5 times before are living in rented house. The 6th, and finally have their own home, very pleased. At that time we have been together 7 years, with two-year-old son. Economy has been not well-off, because money does not have a quarrel. He does not smoke, does not drink, gamble, have been made to wear the uniform of units, but will buy me expensive clothes, but also in the winter You have to give back to my people want to eat fruit. Each one of these surprises are so flowery blooming smile on my face. Since it is in my heart what the long-awaited, never mentioned him, but he noted everything out. He said: "you are my life to the people. We have agreed, no matter what happens." The dedication of a Man, that he has been so heavy in its own way to love me ... ...

slowly growing old together with you

Him anything good, that is, love to smoke, especially when a team then, a chain smoker. Who advised him not effective. She met him are the most docile woman, has never made any demands on him, followed him everything, so that women should be most suitable for them. Such as marriage, as she is still tame, smoke dispersion window from time to time, from time to time Moistening Lung cook for him some soup cough. That day, they treat. She is busy in the kitchen before the peak, the pile of men on the living room while playing cards while smoking. Friends admire him a good wife to marry.his smile is still a draw then a. Finally, I had to ask her friend: "He pumped so much smoke, no matter how you control him ah?" She simply said: "I am comfortable let him have some, limiting him to smoke, many may be able to live one or two decades, but he was not fun, what does that mean?" Sudden silence with a group of people. Including his, had always thought her character weakness, not dare to make any demands. Look busy before the busy person, she looks after, he and some heart ache. Later, he can no longer smoke outside the bedroom. Later, he can no longer smoke outside the home. Later, he is not no smoking in front of her. Later, he quit tobacco. Long after, she asked to quit smoking, and her arms around him, said with deep feeling: "I just want to live next decade or two, take care of you, and slowly growing old together with you, this is one of the most romantic thing . "

Food and Health

The food we eat seems to have profound effects on our health. Although science has made enormous steps in making food more fit to eat, it has, at the same time, made many foods unfit to eat. Some research has shown that perhaps eighty percent of all human illnesses are related to diet and forty percent of cancer is related to the diet as well, especially cancer of the colon. Different cultures are more prone to contract certain illnesses because of the food that is characteristic in these cultures. That food is related to illness is not a new discovery. In 1945, government researchers realized that nitrates and nitrites, commonly used to preserve color in meats, and other food additives, caused cancer. Yet, these carcinogenic additives remain in our food, and it becomes more difficult all the time to know which things in the packaging labels of processed food are helpful or harmful. The additives which we eat are not all so direct. Farmers often give penicillin to beef and poultry, and because of this, penicillin has been found in the milk of treated cows. Sometimes similar drugs are administered to animals not for medicinal purposes, but for financial reasons. The farmers are simply trying to fatten the animals in order to obtain a higher price on the market. Although the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has tried repeatedly to control these procedures, the practices continue.

Are These the Best Years of Your Life

The ups and downs of life may seem to have no predictable plan.But scientists now know there are very definite patterns that almost all people share.Even if you’ve passed some of your “prime”,you still have other prime years to experience in the future.Certain important primes seem to peak later in life.
When are you smartest?From 18—25,according to I.Q.scores;but you’re wiser and more experienced with increasing age.
You’re sharpest in your 20’s;around 30,memory begins to decline,particularly your ability to perform mathematical computations.But your I.Q.for other tasks climbs.Your vocabulary at age 45,for example is three times as great as when you graduated from college.At 60,your brain possesses almost four times as much information as it did at age 21.This trade-off between sharpness and wisdom has led psychologists to suggest that “maturity quotients”(M.Q.)be adopted for adults.
When are you happiest?You have the best physical sense of yourself from 15to 24;the best professional sense from 40to 49.
Before age 24,we believe that our happiest years are yet to come;over30,we believe that they’re behind us.A National Health Survey agrees:After age 30,we “become more realistic and do not view happiness as a goal in itself.If we maintain our health,achieve professional and emotional goals,then happiness,we feel,will follow”.
When are you most creative?Generally between 30and 39,but the peak varies with different professions.
Mozart wrote a symphony and four sonatas by age eight,and Mendelssohn composed his best known work A Midsummer Night’s Dream,at 17,but most of the great music was written by men between 33and 39.Though the peak in most fields comes early——most Nobel prize winners did their top research in their late 20’s and 30’s——creative people continue to produce quality work throughout their lives.For the “well-conditioned mind”,there is no upper limit.

Are These the Best Years of Your Life

The ups and downs of life may seem to have no predictable plan.But scientists now know there are very definite patterns that almost all people share.Even if you’ve passed some of your “prime”,you still have other prime years to experience in the future.Certain important primes seem to peak later in life.
When are you smartest?From 18—25,according to I.Q.scores;but you’re wiser and more experienced with increasing age.
You’re sharpest in your 20’s;around 30,memory begins to decline,particularly your ability to perform mathematical computations.But your I.Q.for other tasks climbs.Your vocabulary at age 45,for example is three times as great as when you graduated from college.At 60,your brain possesses almost four times as much information as it did at age 21.This trade-off between sharpness and wisdom has led psychologists to suggest that “maturity quotients”(M.Q.)be adopted for adults.
When are you happiest?You have the best physical sense of yourself from 15to 24;the best professional sense from 40to 49.
Before age 24,we believe that our happiest years are yet to come;over30,we believe that they’re behind us.A National Health Survey agrees:After age 30,we “become more realistic and do not view happiness as a goal in itself.If we maintain our health,achieve professional and emotional goals,then happiness,we feel,will follow”.
When are you most creative?Generally between 30and 39,but the peak varies with different professions.
Mozart wrote a symphony and four sonatas by age eight,and Mendelssohn composed his best known work A Midsummer Night’s Dream,at 17,but most of the great music was written by men between 33and 39.Though the peak in most fields comes early——most Nobel prize winners did their top research in their late 20’s and 30’s——creative people continue to produce quality work throughout their lives.For the “well-conditioned mind”,there is no upper limit.

Men can not say that the secret

Men can make a woman may be the most favorite dishes, but may not know is why Man come back ; Men dressed as women probably very appropriate, but may not know the definition of a Man for the United States; women often see the strong men, the Men must not know when the most vulnerable; women the self-perfect enough in the eyes of Man, but do not know picky men secretly; women may be aware that when a Man will be an erection, but may not be aware that real men love at which ... ... of a Man heart like a mountain, to accommodate rivers, Vientiane accommodate encountered a model husband, he was reluctant to put the burden on loved ones for those who prefer to carry alone; he knows how to prevent conflicts, the preservation of family harmony, but also knows silence is gold. Always run into an upper body and lower body separately consider the men, women usually eat boring loss; stalls "Chinese-style divorce" of the husband, the wife must be very sensitive crazy. Communicate the most about marriage, men said, is not necessarily think so, and the Man, is reluctant to say, maybe you always see signs. We recruited women in marriage doubts about some of the questions, in-depth understanding of the mentality of a Man. (A total of 29,146 readers to participate in the investigation) One problem you can be forgiven for my husband lying? A can be forgiven, I believe in good faith lies only 17.34% B violated the marriage vows, can not forgive 34.23% C is a Man was originally used to hide or lie in future to find ways to fight back 48.43%

Hot or Not? Study Says Most Agree on Beauty

Men and women generally agree about how attractive another person is, and are often quite accurate in predicting how others will rate their own appearance, new study findings show.Raters were most likely to agree about the attractiveness of another person if all raters were male, and the person being rated was female, Dr. Marcus and Miller note. The least agreement among raters occurred when men rated other men. Women were especially good at predicting how men would rate their appearance.

Why We Love Who We Love

Have you ever known a married couple that just didn't seem as though they should fit together -- yet they are both happy in the marriage, and you can't figure out why? I know of one couple: He is a burly ex-athlete. Meanwhile, his wife is petite, quiet and a complete homebody. She doesn't even go out to dinner.
What mysterious force drives us into the arms of one person, while pushing us away from another who might appear equally desirable to any unbiased observer?
One of the many factors influencing our idea of the perfect mate, one of the most telling, according to John Money, professor emeritus of medical psychology and pediatrics at Johns Hopkins University, is what he calls our " lovemap" -- a group of messages encoded in our brains that describes our likes and dislikes. It shows our preferences in hair and eye color, in voice, smell，body build. It also records the kind of personality that appeals to us, whether it's the warm and friendly type or the strong, silent type.
In short, we fall for and pursue those people who most clearly fit our lovemap. And this lovemap is largely determined in childhood. By age eight, the pattern for our ideal mate has already begun to float around in our brains.
When we're little, our mother is the center of our attention, and we are the center of hers. So our mother's characteristics leave an indelible impression, we are forever attracted to people with her " facial features, body type, personality, even sense of humor. If our mother was warm and giving, as adults we tend to be attracted to people who are warm and giving. If our mother was strong and even-tempered, we are going to be attracted to a fair-minded strength in our mates.
However, there are instances area humans of altered amusing backgrounds end up accepting affiliated and getting acutely happy. I apperceive of one man, a branch artisan from a acceptable Irish family, who fell in adulation with an African-American Baptist. When they got married, their accompany and ancestors predicted a quick failure. But 25 years later, the alliance is still strong.
Is there such a affair as" adulation at aboriginal sight" ?Why not? When humans become love-struck, what happens in that burning is the brace apparently discovers a different something they accept in common. It could be something as banal as they both were account the aforementioned book or were built-in in the aforementioned town. At the aforementioned time they admit some affection in the added that complements their own personality.
I appear to be one of those who was addled by the abracadabra wand. Milt and I were affiliated for 39 years, until his afterlife in 1989. And all that time we accomplished a adulation alleged a " activity of fusion, of oneness," even while we connected to change, abound and accomplish our lives.

Never Marrieds

If you've ever had your mother, or maybe an elderly aunt, utter the dreaded question, "So, are you ever going to get married?" you might be part of a hot new statistic.
So-called "never-marrieds" are one of the fastest-growing groups in America, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. Singles constitute more than 40 percent of the adult population, and 10 percent of all adults will never marry, according to 2000 census statistics.
In less than 30 years, the number of people who have never walked down the aisle has more than doubled, as the median age of marriage has reached a historic high: 25 years for women, and 27 years for men.
Despite the fun, these statistics on singles give rise to the question of bearing children. Are biological clocks still ticking, despite the longer wait to marry?
"The urge to have children persists with or without a mate," sex therapist Dr. Jennifer Berman said. "The reason that people are getting married has shifted between this generation and our parents. More women are focused on careers and they want to get those in order before they think of children."
It is not just women who are hearing the tick-tock either. After decades in which men had the statistics in their favor, the dating pool demographics have reversed. For those between the ages of 30 to 44, the number of men and women are even, and in some cases.
Men who are looking for younger mates may be headed for trouble. Men in their late 30s and early 40s will outnumber women five to 10 years younger by two to one, by 2010, according to the U.S. Census Bureau.
Watters, who is engaged to be married, said that for he was sometimes worried about his single status. Now he wonders what will happen to his urban tribe. But he doesn't know what will happen after he marries. "The tribe fulfills a function that's specific, when you need a group, and it doesn't last forever," he said.

Look for Friendship in Cyberspace

In so many ways, cyberspace mirrors the real world. People ask for information, play games, and share hobby tips. Others buy and sell products. Still others look for friendship, or even love.
Unlike the real world, however, your knowledge about a person is limited to words on a computer screen. Identity and appearancemean very little in cyberspace. Rather, a person’s thoughts-or at least the thoughts they type-are what really count. So even the shyest person can become a chat-room star.
Usually, this ”faceless” communication doesn’t create problems. Identity doesn’t really matter when you’re in a chat room discussing politics or hobbies. In fact, this emphasis on theideas themselves makes the Internet a great place for exciting conversation. Where else can so many people come together to chat .
But some Internet users want more than just someone to chat with.They’re looking for serious love relationships. Is cyberspace a good place to find love? That answer depends on whom you ask. Some of these relationships actually succeed. Others fail miserably.

Look for Friendship in Cyberspace
In so many ways, cyberspace mirrors the real world. People ask for information, play games, and share hobby tips. Others buy and sell products. Still others look for friendship, or even love.
Unlike the real world, however, your knowledge about a person is limited to words on a computer screen. Identity and appearancemean very little in cyberspace. Rather, a person’s thoughts-or at least the thoughts they type-are what really count. So even the shyest person can become a chat-room star.
Usually, this ”faceless” communication doesn’t create problems. Identity doesn’t really matter when you’re in a chat room discussing politics or hobbies. In fact, this emphasis on theideas themselves makes the Internet a great place for exciting conversation. Where else can so many people come together to chat .
But some Internet users want more than just someone to chat with.They’re looking for serious love relationships. Is cyberspace a good place to find love? That answer depends on whom you ask. Some of these relationships actually succeed. Others fail miserably.
Online Love
Supporters of online relationships claim that the Internet allows couples to get to know each other intellectually first. Personal appearance doesn’t get in the way.
But critics of online relationships arguer that no one can truly know another person in cyberspace. Why? Because the Internet gives users a lot of control over how others view them. Internet users can carefully craft their words to fit whatever image they want to give. And they don’t have to worry about what their “nonverbal” communication is doing for their image. In a sense, they’re not really themselves.
All of this may be fine if the relationship stays in cyberspace.But not knowing a person is a big problem in a love relationship. With so many unknowns, it’s easy to let one’s imagination “fillin the blanks.” This inevitably leads to disappointment when couples meet in person. How someone imagines an online friend is often quite different than the real person.
So, before looking for love in cyberspace, remember the advice of Internet pioneer Clifford Stoll: “Life in the real world is far richer than anything you’ll find on a computer screen.”

Friends

A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
There's always going to be people that hurt you,so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
Make youself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
Remember:Whatever happens,happens for a reason.
How many people actually have 8 true friends?Hardly anyone I know.But some of us have all right friends and good friends.

Did you know

Did you know that those who appear to be very strong in heart, are really weak and most susceptible?
Did you know that those who spent their time protecting others are the ones who really need someone to protect them?
Did you know that the three most difficult things to say are: I love you,Sorry and Help me？
Did you know that those who dress in red are more confident in themselves?
Did you know that those who dress in yellow are those that enjoy their beauty?
Did you know that those who dress in black,are those who want to be unnoticed and need your help and understanding?
Did you know that when you help someone, the help is returned in two folds?
Did you know that it's easier to say what you feel in writing than saying it to someone in the face?
But did you know that it has more value when you say it to their face?
Did you know that if you ask for something in faith, your wishes are granted?
Did you know that you can make you dreams come true,like falling in love,becoming rich,staying healthy, if you ask for it in faith, and if you really knew, you'd be surprised by what you could do?
But don't believe everything I tell you until you try it for yourself.

The gift of Love

If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give away all my possessions, and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.Love never ends. But as for prophecies, they will come to an end; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come to an end. For we know only in part, and we prophesy only in part; but when the complete comes, the partial will come to an end. When I was a child, I thought like a child; when I became and adult, I put an end to childish ways. For now we see in mirror, dimly, but then we will see face to face. Now I know only in part; then I will know fully, even as I have been fully known. And now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love.

A Chance of a lifetime

We spent part of every day together for the next week. I knew I was falling in love, but dared not speak it. I couldn't upset our chances for a lifetime. " And I know he loves me, too," l moaned to Stacy over a cup of coffee in my near-empty restaurant. "We've even talked about trying to get together over holidays. He's meeting me here soon to bring me a gift to remember him by."Just then, Bary strolled in. I stood to welcome his arms around me. We sat, sipping our coffee. "I will miss you so much, "he said softly. "But I know you'll think of me whenever you hear this. "He placed a Tracy Chapman CD on the table in front of me. Then he pointed to the song title, Just Give Me One Reason. "We can listen to the same music and remember each other." "Oh, and one more thing to remember me by." He set a small box on top of the CD. The same awe I felt at our first meeting paralyzed me now. The love I saw in his eyes as we gazed across the table was gift enough for a lifetime. Finally I reached for the box and opened it slowly. A diamond ring! "Michelle, I have loved you from the first moment I saw you. On our first date, even before we had coffee, l knew you were the woman I was going to marry. I woke up this morning, desperate, thinking, it's May 3! In three days I'll lose my angel. Sure, my career in South Africa is a chance in a lifetime, but you, Michelle, are my dream come true. Please marry me." I know what moving to New York means to you, but will you come with me to South Africa? I believe with all my heart, Michelle, that we were brought together on purpose. Nothing in my life is going as I planned it, but l know it's all a part of a bigger plan." Barry chuckled. "God has a great sense of humor, but a poor sense of timing." Exactly one year later, on May 3, we were married under an African sky. Our dream come true. Our chance of a lifetime.

You

I love having you in my life. It has never been the same since you came into it, and I know it will never be the same again. I love you so much. You are always inside me, warm within my heart, and you are everywhere in the world that surrounds me. You come to me tenderly. You take my soul places it's never been before. You give me more of you than I ever knew anyone could give. You give me feelings that feel like presents almost too beautiful to open. Among the gifts you have given, one of the most wonderful of all is the joy of being so close to you. Thank you for trusting me enough to share all that you are... with all that I hope to be. I love catching glimpses of every new facet you share with me. And the more you do that... the more I can't help but adore what I see. In the time that we have been together, you have made my sun rise on so many mornings — and I'm sure it was you who made my stars come out at night. You've surprised me with the gifts of hope and laughter and love, and you've made me a believer in something I never used to have too much faith in: the notion that dreams really can come true. If there are times when you look at me and see my eyes filled with smiles and tears, it's only because my heart is so full of happiness, and because my life is so thankful for... you.

whered you go

Where'd you go? I miss you so.Seems like it's been forever.That you have been gone.He said "some days i feel like shit.Some days i wanna quit, and just be normal for a bit."I don't understand why you have to always be gone.I get along but the trips always feel so long.And, i find myself tryna stay by the phone.'cause your voice always helps me when i feel so alone.But i feel like an idiot, working my day around the call.But when i pick up i don't have much to say.So, i want you to know it's a little fucked up.that i'm stuck here waiting, at times debating.Telling you that i've had it with you and your career.Now i find myself just filling my time.Anything to keep the thought of you from my mind.I'm doing fine, I plan to keep it that way.You can call me if you find you have something to say.I want you to know it's a little fucked up,that i'm stuck here waitin', no longer debating,tired of sittin' and hatin' and making these excuses,for while you're not around, and feeling so useless.It seems one thing has been true all along.You don't really know what you got 'til it's gone.